The Real World
For the Brilliants, the fantasy of their remodeled
house is giving way to compromise and concerns.
By Sarah Pekkanen
This is the second in a series of articles chronicling
the experiences of a Chevy Chase family as they undertake
a major renovation on their house. In the first story,
writer Sarah Pekkanen introduced readers to the Brilliants,
their home and their excitement and anxiety about the
renovation.
Just a few months ago, Jenny and Myron Brilliant decided
to renovate their Chevy Chase home. Turns out, making
that momentous decision wasn’t the hard part.
Now, poised at the start of their renovation journey,
they have begun to wonder: How did everything become
so complicated?
In the beginning, the Brilliants spent hours fantasizing
about ways to overhaul the 100-year-old farmhouse they’d
bought in 1999: They’d rip out the ancient kitchen,
extend a tiny bathroom, build a master bedroom, add
walk-in closets, and create a playroom for their three
young children. Their wish list went on and on.
They weren’t just going to expand their home.
They were going to create a new way of life. “This
will be a great gathering house,” promised their
architect, Jim Rill, as Jenny and Myron imagined hosting
big family dinners and holiday parties. Yet somehow,
between their first tentative discussion about renovating
and the point at which they’ve now arrived —
the verge of signing a construction contract —
doubts have begun to worm their way into the Brilliants’
minds.
Already, they’re scaling back: A finished basement
is too expensive — so that guest bedroom and playroom
they had originally envisioned are gone. They may eliminate
the family room fireplace. Rill doesn’t even want
Jenny to think about custom-made kitchen cabinets. Toughest
of all, they haven’t heard yet if their contractor
can begin work in November — and if it proves
too cold to break ground this winter that could mean
big delays.
What they have to focus on, the Brilliants keep reminding
themselves, is the reward that lies a year or so into
the future: A home that will be worth all their compromises
and conflicts. Conflicts like when Jenny suggested buying
a refrigerator for the basement storage area they’ll
create. Myron thought their old refrigerator would be
just fine.
“The old one!” says Jenny incredulously.
“I have little cups I use to collect dripping
water! And if the cups aren’t there, the water
drips all over the floor! We’ll buy a new one
at Sears!”
In the grand scheme of a $600,000- plus reconstruction,
what’s the big deal about a refrigerator? Jenny
thinks. She has an excellent eye for detail, and she
wants things done right. This doesn’t exactly
reassure Myron.
At one point during a September meeting with Rill and
his designer Kay Kim, Rill points to a detailed, five-page
budget that breaks down expenditures: $5,000 for light
fixtures, $10,000 for kitchen appliances and so on.
“You’ve got to follow that budget or go
under budget, Jenny,” Myron stresses. “You’ve
got to read that contract so you can go under budget.”
Clearly, Myron feels Jenny might tweak their plans,
selecting slightly nicer bathroom tiles, or upgrading
their wood floors — suddenly, their entire budget
will be shot.
Is it obvious yet that Myron has a law degree, while
Jenny studied at a Manhattan art school? “Let’s
not play into our stereotypes,” laughs Myron,
who was giving Rill a list of his concerns about construction
schedules and costs while Jenny, distracted by some
samples in Rill’s office, enthuses, “Oh,
that’s a pretty kitchen cabinet.”
Jenny and Myron’s diverse personalities will
make Rill’s job easier. They’ll rein each
other in, which means no one else will have to. This
project is like a tripod, with three critical legs —
the Brilliants, their architect and their contractor
— all of whom must hold up their end to keep everything
from collapsing.
That third leg belongs to Adam Prill, who runs a construction
company on Fairmont Avenue in Bethesda, next to Positano’s
restaurant. The Brilliants chose Prill partly because
his price was $60,000 lower than the other contractor
bidding on their project. They also liked his personality.
Prill, who has more energy than a classroom of sixth-graders
on the day before summer vacation, has achieved considerable
success by the age of 40. He built several Metro stations
— including Columbia Heights and Suitland —
and served as senior project manager for the Holocaust
Museum, his most cherished project.
By the time most people are stumbling toward the office
coffeepot, Prill has usually put in a half-day’s
work. Take a recent Thursday: He got up at 4 a.m., sorted
through e-mail and other correspondence, “whipped
out [a design for] a deck real fast,” then headed
downtown for a breakfast meeting. By 10:30 a.m. he was
back in his office, sipping coffee and talking about
a career that began when he was 11 years old and used
to tag along with his father, a structural engineer,
to construction sites in the D.C. area. Prill is excited
about the Brilliants’ project — and a bit
apprehensive. “I’m an idealist,” he
says carefully when asked to elaborate on his concerns.
“I believe everyone should get along.”
He knows it doesn’t always happen. Say the tile
guy is supposed to turn up on Monday — but doesn’t.
One such delay can cause catastrophe in a finely tuned
schedule, like a row of falling dominoes. “Try
to set up a meeting with four of your friends —
then multiply that by 20,” is how Prill describes
the logistical struggle of organizing subcontractors
and material shipments.
Even without delays, emotions often run high. Homeowners
frequently begin to “want more,” says Prill
— better materials, say, or bigger windows. Or
architects might give an offhand price estimate that
a client mistakes as a firm commitment. These kinds
of conflicts can result in tension and stress.
It’s important that everyone involved in this
project keeps communicating, Prill says. So far, the
three teams have a solid rapport: Prill and Rill established
a good working relationship on past projects, and Prill
and Jenny were friendly acquaintances who both graduated
from Churchill High School in Potomac in 1981. “Hopefully
those common bonds will carry us through,” says
Prill.
Jenny is also thinking about relationships. She’ll
be the one responsible for overseeing the project, because
Myron frequently travels for work. She knows that her
tendency to want things to be beautiful — as well
as her penchant for procrastination — will probably
bother Myron. And when all the major burdens seem to
fall on her shoulders, she knows she might become resentful,
too.
Already, complications are bubbling up. Jenny and Myron
had planned to live in their home during the entire
reconstruction, but now the upcoming chaos has them
thinking about moving in with Jenny’s parents
in Potomac for the first month or two. It will feel
strange for Jenny to straddle the dual roles of parent
and child — plus, her folks love to entertain.
“We’ll be crimping their style,” she
says.
Moving means Jenny will have to fight traffic to get
her kids to school every day, when from her own house
her son can simply walk to Chevy Chase Elementary and
her daughter to a nearby bus stop for Rosemary Hills
Elementary.
Though construction has yet to begin, the Brilliants
are already overwhelmed by how much there is to think
about. Jenny has a lengthy list of chores — visit
tile showrooms to get ideas about color and texture,
pick out bathroom fixtures, look into wood flooring
and cabinets, start thinking about packing. Myron, meanwhile,
has been gathering old W-2 forms and bank statements
so they can get approval for a loan. Rill advises them
to pace themselves as they check things off their to-do
lists.
Toward the end of summer, however, something happened
that made the furor over their renovation fade into
the background.
At 8:30 one evening, Jenny was driving with her children
down Stanford Street in Chevy Chase during a violent,
record-breaking rainstorm. Just a few blocks from home,
she saw water pooling at the bottom of a hill. She tried
to drive through it but her minivan stalled. She got
out, and suddenly, the water was rushing up past her
knees, pouring into her van. She phoned Myron on her
cell phone while a passerby called out that police were
on the way.
Jenny carried her older son and daughter to the safety
of a neighbor’s porch, then rushed back to get
her 15-month-old baby. Luckily, there was Myron, reaching
into the car, helping her bring little Eric to safety.
Everything snapped into perspective. Her family was
safe, and that was all that mattered. The next morning,
when she opened her trunk, Jenny discovered the architectural
plans for the renovation. They were a blurry, sodden
mass.
She refused to consider it a bad omen.
Chevy Chase writer Sarah Pekkanen has written for
the Baltimore Sun, the Washington Post,
the New Republic, Washingtonian and
People.
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